Jason,
Firstly, you are right in that I am a HAI DIY'er, so if it isn't possible to help me on here I understand. I would like to note thought that I only said "telephone" because that is the cable I ran between the Crestron MC2e (which I CAN program) and the Omni IIe. From reading the documentation (Installation Guide page 23), it looks like a 4 core telephone cable would suffice, terminated with an RJ11.
Whilst I would be happy to engage you to help with the installation (given the poor response I get from the company I bought the kit from), at least letting me know whether or not it will work in the way I have it wired, would help me a lot. If I need to run CAT5 instead and use a different connector at the Omni end, so be it.
Thanks
Marc